Comments on: Daniel’s Story http://www.joandeitchman.com/blog/?p=2590 Joan Deitchman: Ultra-Cyclist Thu, 14 Jun 2018 20:29:24 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Yvonne Linton http://www.joandeitchman.com/blog/?p=2590#comment-2596 Yvonne Linton Tue, 15 Nov 2016 07:47:07 +0000 http://www.joandeitchman.com/blog/?p=2590#comment-2596 What a story! I hope that someday you will share this with Daniel's brother(s) or sister(s). You have really carried us through that painful journey. It brings back so many memories...I'm glad you didn't stuff it like I did and shared his life with all of us. It makes him real...his life really mattered. While it was sad my ultrasound picture was thoughtlessly tossed in the trash can, I can now picture what it might have looked like. It's odd how doctors used to try to protect us from pain like pretending something never happened. By the time I realized I was pregnant I was 3 months and never got to hear a heartbeat, so the loss was trivialized. But I think we have to walk through it to process it, just as you are. Continued best wishes in your healing journey. Daniel's life had meaning and a purpose. And he mattered to many people and to God. May you feel His comfort. What a story! I hope that someday you will share this with Daniel’s brother(s) or sister(s). You have really carried us through that painful journey. It brings back so many memories…I’m glad you didn’t stuff it like I did and shared his life with all of us.
It makes him real…his life really mattered. While it was sad my ultrasound picture was thoughtlessly tossed in the trash can, I can now picture what it might have looked like.
It’s odd how doctors used to try to protect us from pain like pretending something never happened. By the time I realized I was pregnant I was 3 months and never got to hear a heartbeat, so the loss was trivialized. But I think we have to walk through it to process it, just as you are. Continued best wishes in your healing journey. Daniel’s life had meaning and a purpose. And he mattered to many people and to God. May you feel His comfort.

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